A photo journal comprised of my thoughts on motherhood and other life happenings, as well as some of professional work as a photographer. Southern California is home.
There was a point in time, mostly around the holidays, that you guys could not keep your hands off one another. I think a lot of it, in hindsight, had to do with all the gifts and new toys. Too many things to fight over. Hooper, you liked to do this drop kick maneuver that inevitably ended with you on top of Van. You guys were at each other non-stop; biting, pushing, shoving, toy-stealing, hair pulling… it seemed ending. You both had battle wounds to show for it; bite marks, bruises, and even some missing tufts of hair. The last few weeks, however, have been much smoother and you guys actually seem to be enjoying one another.
Van, you get jealous when Hooper and I cuddle. You also do not like sharing my lap with Hooper when I read you guys a book.
You like to “cheers” your cups together, Van more so than Hooper.
You have screaming contests. It’s awesome when you do this in public.
Hooper, you see it as your duty to reprimand Van. When I tell Van to stop or scold him, you are quick to jump in and hit him.
Van, your defense is pulling Hooper’s hair. I’ve considered shaving Hooper’s head because it looks so painful.
Every now and again, I’ll catch you guys playing in a room peacefully. My heart practically beats out of my chest when I overhear you, Hooper, teaching your brother something or directing him in some way or another. More and more you guys are becoming friends and it’s a beautiful thing to watch unfold. There are even times, as shown above, that you even – dare I say – console your little brother.
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“Stop it Vaun” — Hooper. I love how he says Van’s name. They’re so adorable.
This is so cute! It’s interesting how some kids are more jealous or more territorial of mommy then others. My daughter is much more so, and then my son only is when he notices that his sister is.
My two had a screaming contest -their first- in the middle of the grocery store the other day. I was horrified and left quickly. I do hope this doesn’t come up with them again.
Ya, I think the jealousy thing was a weird phase. He seems to have grown out of it and it’s never really fit his personality. Funny how fast they grow out of things.
“Stop it Vaun” — Hooper. I love how he says Van’s name. They’re so adorable.
This is so cute! It’s interesting how some kids are more jealous or more territorial of mommy then others. My daughter is much more so, and then my son only is when he notices that his sister is.
My two had a screaming contest -their first- in the middle of the grocery store the other day. I was horrified and left quickly. I do hope this doesn’t come up with them again.
Ya, I think the jealousy thing was a weird phase. He seems to have grown out of it and it’s never really fit his personality. Funny how fast they grow out of things.