Our days take a while to get started and I catch myself in fleeting moments of feeling unproductive; like I’m floating from one thing to the next as opposed to moving with intention, crossing things off the ol’ daily list of tasks. My inbox always seems flooded, dishes always piling, legos forever spilling across the floor; the days are moving faster than I am.
But I have this little tool in my arsenal that I arguably had before but it’s just a bit sharper now; the edges made more defined by the days behind me. If ever there was a l lingering theme in my life, let it be perspective.
Motherhood has taught me that there is a season for everything; a time to enjoy nights out away from the kids, a time to enjoy vacations as a family and adventures to foreign lands, a time to push bedtime back a few hours and go out for ice cream, a time to buckle down and lay out the law, and – well – a time to put the to-do list down, to slow down, to welcome help with a grace and gratitude; a time to celebrate new life… and nothing more.
Celebration is so often skipped these days; we’re so eager to make it to the next big thing, the next accomplishment, that we don’t take the proper time to celebrate all that can be celebrated in the moment we’re in.
It’s not easy to slow down, to get a late start, to make it to the end of the day having accomplished little more than three meals (and questionable ones at that), breastfeeding, changing of diapers, and maybe the start of a load of laundry that may very well end up sitting there until tomorrow, the smell of mildew a reminder that you simply didn’t move fast enough but your handy dandy tool of perspective reminding you that it’s okay.
My house is a mess. The boys have ate more Eggo waffles than I care to admit and snuck more candy, compliments of Easter, than I care to regulate. But the time will come when my attention will be, once again, more evenly divided. For now, it’s all about celebrating… taking in this new life, new gift… and letting everything else fall wherever it shall fall.
For tomorrow there will be time to sort out all the fallen pieces. Or at least some of them.
Thank you. This is my lived life and it is nice to read it from another mums experience because sometimes you can get so lost in it all.
Lovely photos and yes it is so true what you write. My days often seen to run together and each task that I think I will complete today enevidibly will get done tomorrow (I think) but I have to take time to just soak it in because it does go fast. My youngest “baby” is about to turn four in a few months. So hard to believe.
Beautiful post, Beeze.
This is so so good. My three are 5.5, 3.5 and 14 months and I still feel like most days move faster than I do. Love this reminder to live in the seasons. Thank you!
Beautifully said. So very true.
I could no agree more. Hurray for the everyday magic!
So good. So true. Beautiful, mama.